Personal invitations
Every guest gets their own link, and anyone who replies without one waits for your approval.
South Africa · Traditional ceremonies
Invitations for lobola, umembeso and umabo.
Private, personal invitations for the traditional side of your wedding, sent on WhatsApp and tracked family by family.
Made for the day
Every family, properly invited.
A personal welcome
Each invitation greets the guest by name and shows how many people it admits, so numbers stay where you set them.
See a live example
Family by family
Group guests by family and delegation, and see who is coming from each side, for the umembeso at the bride's home and the umabo at the groom's.
The programme and the place
Share the order of the day, directions to the family home and what to wear.
Why families choose it
Respectful, private and easy.
Helpers with their own view
Each helper sees only their part of the guest list, and every reply lands with you.
Numbers for the caterers
Headcounts and meal choices, ready for whoever is cooking.
One invitation per celebration
Lobola, umembeso, umabo and the white wedding can each have their own invitation.
How it works
Easy for both families.
- 01
Share the celebrations
Dates, family homes and guests.
- 02
We prepare the invitations
Private pages with personal links.
- 03
Send on WhatsApp
Or by SMS and email.
- 04
Welcome every guest
Replies and arrivals, live.
Packages
Priced per celebration.
Signature
Invitation + event website
from US$50
A private invitation page with RSVPs.
- Themed event website on its own link
- Shareable invitation card
- RSVP with a live headcount
- Countdown, map and add-to-calendar
- Quick set-up with our event builder
Grand
Full event management
from US$180
Personal links for every guest, approvals and QR check-in at the gate.
- Everything in Signature
- Registration, approvals and waitlists
- Personal links and bulk WhatsApp invites
- Seating plan and table cards
- QR passes, badges and gate check-in
- Payments, suppliers and branded reports
Prices are per event, in US dollars. See every add-on.
Can the umembeso and umabo have separate invitations?
Yes. Each celebration can have its own invitation and guest list, and you decide who is invited to each.
Can helpers from both families manage guests?
Yes. Each helper sees only their part of the list, and every reply lands in one place for you.
Will people we didn't invite be able to RSVP?
They can ask, but anyone without an invitation waits for your approval before they're counted.
Can guests abroad follow the day?
They can reply from anywhere, and we can add a livestream link for those who can't travel (quoted separately).
How much does it cost?
Private invitation pages start at US$50 (Signature). Grand, from US$180, adds personal links for every guest, approvals and QR check-in.
